Saturday, May 22, 2010

Should I Erase You?



Here is a photo I took of my ex-boyfriend with the sun behind his head, on a trip to New York 4 years ago. It was meant to be beautifully backlit, like the one he took of me, but when it was my turn, I accidentally erased his head with natural flare. (no pun intended) 

I remember feeling guilty - like he might think I had done it on purpose, but he found it funny.

I'm having a hard time culling my photo library (and my music library.) It feels weird to have so many photos of an old life with him every time I open iphoto. Should I back them up, and delete them like he never existed? Like couples do on Facebook? Am I being a hoarder? What's the best thing to do here?

I suppose I can at least keep this one.

4 comments:

  1. I think back them up and take them off your computer only if they are bothering you or you think you are ready to get rid of them.

    I took mine off simply because I didn't want to be reminded of that life every time I went into my photos, I'd rather remember those times when I want to.

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  2. Thanks Sal. That sounds like a good idea.

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  3. This is just incredible!!! I can't stop looking at it. His face is naturally deep etched around that scarf. Bloody amazing and FUNNY!

    I agree with Sal. Back-up (back-up).
    T-Bird.
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  4. Thanks T-bird. I pumped up the contrast the tiniest bit, because you could make an feint outline of his mouth in the original, I don't know how to post it here - otherwise I would. I think it would make a rad picture set to take pics of yr friends like that. Can you do that on an slr? Do one of Glen Iris or Jem for me!

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